The Lee Family's legacy of love

Exterior of Lee's Laundry on the corner of Earl and Division Street.

On the southeast corner of 簫Division and Earl streets, surrounded by student housing, stands the modest red-brick house that for almost a half century was home to Lees Laundry. Nearby residents, professors, and nurses lauded its proprietors unmatched ability to launder and press everything from pants and shirts to tablecloths, 簫collars, and nurses caps.

Lees Laundry provided a useful, reliable, and conveniently located service, but thats not why it remains a touchstone for many Kingstonians and Queens alumni. Their memories typically centre on the laundrys owners, Donald Benedict Lee and Betty Ngan-Woon Lee, who by all accounts were quiet-spoken, warm, welcoming, always willing to share stories, and always responsive to their customers needs. The couple emigrated from China to start a family in Canada, so that their children would have better opportunities, and they owned and operated the full-service laundry as a true partnership. 

The Lees, Betty and Donald, raised 16 kids - all of whom are Queen's alumni. (Supplied photo)

Whats most remarkable about the Lees is not just that they had 16 offspring, but that every one of them Jack, Edward, Kent, Susan, Judith, Sandy, Margaret, Neil, Andrew, Beverly, Michael, Linda, Anita, Elizabeth, Cynthia, and Victoria attended nearby Sydenham Public School and/or Victoria Public School (whose structure is now incorporated into Queens School of Business), Kingston Collegiate and Vocational Institute (KCVI), and ultimately, Queens. Over the years the Lee children earned undergrad degrees in Engineering, Commerce, Arts and Science, and Education, and Masters degrees in Engineering, Business, and Science. This is arguably the largest number of children sharing the same parents to have become Queens alumni.

Its hard enough work to raise one or two kids, let alone put them through 簫university. How the Lees managed the feat with 16 children is difficult to fathom unless youre one of those kids.

My parents achieved the grades to 簫attend university, but were unable to do so for financial reasons, and they always placed a lot of value on higher education, says Jack Lee, Sc84, the eldest of Donald and Bettys children. Obviously they were incredibly hard workers, and they instilled that work ethic in all of us.

  • The Lees, Betty and Donald, raised 16 kids - all of whom are 腦瞳憫 alumni.

    The Lees, Betty and Donald, raised 16 kids - all of whom are 腦瞳憫 alumni.

  • The nine Lee girls

    The nine Lee girls

  • Seven sons

    Seven sons

The truth of that statement is borne out by the academic and extracurricular achievements of the Lee siblings. Throughout their school days they often found themselves at the head of their class and won bursaries, scholarships, and awards. They worked at the laundry and had paper routes. They participated and excelled in public speaking contests, athletic competitions, and science fairs. Cynthia, Com06, graduated as the top student at KCVI. Victoria, Sc07, graduated with the Gold Medal in Mechanical 簫Engineering.

Susan Billings, now retired, taught the five youngest Lee sisters at Sydenham Public School. [Donald and Betty] were proud of all of their kids. She recalls. Whenever I took clothes to the laundry, they were always happy to hear how well their kids were doing.

Donald passed away in 2009, an event that prompted his wife to close the laundry. Betty passed away on May 10. Almost immediately the Lee children came together to 簫devise a way to honour their parents.

This was the genesis of the Donald 簫Benedict Lee and Betty Ngan-Woon Lee Memorial Award, which will be given to one or more Kingston students entering first-year studies at Queens. Although all Kingston highschoolers are eligible to 簫apply, preference will be given to those from KCVI. Each award will be based on financial need and 簫academic merit. The 簫importance of the opportunity for continuing 簫education at Queens and their lifelong commitment to raising the family in Kingston were dear 簫to their hearts, reads the award description. Through this award, those principles will live on through future learners.

If you have memories of the Lees or wish to give to the Awards endowment fund, please  or send an email.

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